HI GUYS! It’s been a while since I’ve written a “Sex Talk” because, basically, I’m not having any, but I’m excited to write this! If you’ve never read one of these before, some of them are fun, some of them are serious, and some of them, like this one, are conversational. Check out all my Sex Talks below! In this post I want to go into how sex and intimacy go hand in hand. Lets get into it!
“Intimacy” might have a different meaning to every person. You might think you can only be “intimate” in a romantic relationship, but this is far from the truth. Intimacy is closeness, familiarness, and comfort in a relationship. You can have an intimate relationship with any friend that you’re really comfortable with and tell everything to, no matter how long it’s been since you’ve seen them. You can meet someone, really connect with them, and have a more intimate relationship with them than someone you’ve known forever. So why do people relate intimacy back to sex or romance?
Intimacy is a vital part of a good relationship or sex life. It’s also my personal favorite part. Having sex with someone you’re not intimate with is great, but it’s just physical. It’s like going on a run because you love the way it makes you feel. Sex with intimacy is more emotional than physical. You’re not just fulfilling your physical needs, but you’re craving closeness with a specific person and being with them satisfies you mentally. That’s why intimacy isn’t specific to just sexual relationships, you want that closeness with friends, parents, siblings, and anyone important to you, sex can just be a representative of intimacy when you want it to be (and when it’s appropriate) .
My point of making this post is so you guys remember to always chase intimacy. Whether it is with friends, family, or your romantic partner, an intimate relationship is the kind where you can just be you and laugh. It’s the key to successful communication which is what good relationships are based on. Sex with someone you’re intimate with is always going to be mind blowing. It deepens the emotional bond you have developed.
Now, go grab your partner, have a deep conversation about your psychological state, bang them really hard, eat some food together after, and thank me later. 😉
Thank you so much for reading! Check out all my other SEX TALKS below. These are really different then my other content so please check out some other posts!